Your Ultimate Guide to the Best Sex Toys for Men
Summary:
- Meet the game-changing male pleasure products that make your hand feel … well, a little basic.
- Learn how to choose, use, and fully enjoy toys designed for penis owners — from lifelike stroker sleeves to space-age app-controlled magic.
- Explore Pleasure Chest staff picks that will have you thinking, “Where have you been all my life?”
Male masturbation is getting a tech upgrade — and your hand just can’t compete
Why the Best Sex Toys for Men Are Stealing the Spotlight
Let’s be honest — the days of a sock and a prayer are over. The best sex toys for men have evolved from “just a hole in a hunk of silicone” to sleek, sensation-packed pleasure machines that look like they belong in a sci-fi film (only much more fun).
And they’re not just about the “O.” These toys:
- Turn everyday solo play into a full-blown event
- Open up new sensations you didn’t know your body could feel
- Keep long-distance relationships hotter than your Wi-Fi router
- Double as a wellness routine — for real (prostate health, better stamina, and less stress? Yes, please.)
Whether you’re a curious first-timer or a seasoned toy connoisseur, consider this your field guide to the world of sex toys for guys — complete with Pleasure Chest-approved recommendations.
Choosing the Right Sex Toy for Guys: Your Pleasure Map
Picking your first (or next) toy doesn’t have to feel like ordering a mystery drink at a bar. Think about:
- Stimulation Style
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- Manual Strokers: You do the work, and you set the pace. Great for beginners or those who like total control.
- Automatic Toys: Let the toy take the wheel — and your mind.
- Specialty Sensations: Pulses, oscillations, suction… basically the “fancy cocktails” of pleasure.
2. Material
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- We carry options from body-safe silicone, to elastomer. You will want something that is easy to clean and feels great. Bonus points if it feels scandalously close to the real thing.
3. Cleaning & Care
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- Pleasure is the main event — cleaning should be the easy afterparty. Choose toys with removable sleeves or smooth, non-porous surfaces.
4. Discretion
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- Some toys look so sleek, they could pass for high-end tech gadgets. (Just… maybe don’t hand them to your boss like they’re a portable speaker.)
Manual Strokers: Old-School Meets Ohhh-Yeah
If you’ve never tried a sex toy for men before, a manual stroker is the perfect gateway. Think of it as your upgrade from “DIY” to “VIP.”
Staff Pick: Dani Daniels Realistic Ass and Vagina Stroker
Two entrances. Infinite possibilities.
The Dani Daniels Realistic Ass and Vagina Stroker is the ultimate fantasy come to (very lifelike) life. With two openings — vaginal and anal — each with their own unique texture, this toy lets you switch things up without missing a beat.
- Ultra-realistic material that warms to your touch
- Dual-entry for double the fun
- Textures designed to keep you guessing
Play Tip: Pop it in warm water or add a drop of warming lube before use and thank us later. You’ll be convinced Dani’s actually in the room.
Automatic Toys: Sit Back and Let the Magic Happen
Why do all the work when you can go hands-free? Automatic strokers bring the consistency, intensity, and “wow, I didn’t know I could make that face” factor.
Staff Pick: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux
Oscillating bliss: because sometimes you deserve to be spoiled.
The Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux isn’t your average stroker — it’s more like the James Bond gadget of male masturbation. Using PulsePlate™ oscillation tech, it stimulates even if you’re not fully hard. Perfect for lazy Sundays, erotic edging, or those times you want your pleasure to feel like an all-night DJ set.
- Six vibration modes, adjustable intensity
- Works with lube or dry for two totally different sensations
- Easy-clean design because you’ve got better things to do after
Why We Love It: It’s discreet, versatile, and feels like nothing else — a total “how did I live without this?” purchase.
App-Controlled Fun: Long-Distance Lovers, Rejoice
Whether your partner is in the next room or on another continent, app-controlled toys turn every session into an interactive experience. You hand over the controls — and they turn your body into their playground.
Staff Pick: Lovense Solace App-Controlled Hands-Free Automatic Thrusting Stroker
When your toy is smarter than your phone — and way more fun to play with.
The Lovense Solace Pro is here for one mission: to make you forget where you end and your toy begins. With multiple thrusting speeds, vibration patterns, and the ability to sync with the Lovense app, this one’s a game-changer for long-distance couples, cam fun, or adventurous solo play.
- Hands-free thrusting = you can sext and get off at the same time
- App control lets your partner take the wheel from anywhere
- Easy-to-clean removable sleeve because hygiene is still sexy
Best For: Turning “I miss you” into “I can’t wait to see you” — in every possible way.
Beyond Strokers: Expanding Your Pleasure Menu
Sure, strokers are amazing — but variety is the spice of your sex life. Try:
- Prostate Massagers for full-body, “did I just black out?” orgasms
- Vibrating Rings for harder, longer erections (and partner-friendly stimulation)
- Anal Toys to add an extra layer to your solo or partnered adventures
- Penis Pumps & Extenders experiment with ways to increase your size and stamina
Pro-Level Pleasure Hacks
Treat your toy like your lover: lube them, love them, and take good care of them.
1. Always Lube Up
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- The right lube makes good sessions fabulous. Try warming or cooling lubes to play with sensation.
2. Change Your Angle
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- Sitting, lying, standing — every position hits differently. Experiment.
3. Stack Your Toys
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- Pair a stroker with a vibrating ring or nipple play for “I need a nap” levels of bliss.
4. Aftercare Isn’t Just for Kink
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- Clean your toy, hydrate, and bask in your post-orgasm glow.
The Sexy Science Bit
Regular male masturbation isn’t just fun — it can improve sexual health, boost mood, and lower stress levels. According to Cleveland Clinic it’s a normal, healthy part of sexuality. And Harvard Health Publishing notes that regular stimulation can even benefit prostate health.
So yes, science says you should treat yourself.
Invest in Your Pleasure
The best sex toys for men aren’t just about the orgasm — they’re about giving yourself permission to explore, play, and enjoy your body. From the lifelike textures of the Dani Daniels Realistic Ass and Vagina Stroker to the futuristic Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux to the wildly interactive Lovense Solace Pro, your next favorite experience is waiting.
Your only job? Pick one, charge it (or warm it), and let the fun begin.
Sources:
Cleveland Clinic: Masturbation
Harvard Health Publishing: Ejaculation frequency and prostate cancer